The festive season is a time for joy, connection, and sharing

When you have a loved one living with early stage dementia, finding the right Christmas presents can sometimes feel tricky.  The best gifts are often those that bring comfort, promote engagement, or help them reminisce and feel valued.  We believe that focusing on their abilities – not their inabilities – is key to a truly thoughtful gift.

The usual presents might not be suitable anymore. You want something that will be truly appreciated and not cause confusion or frustration. The right gift can support their wellbeing and make them feel seen.

Gifts that encourage cognitive and physical stimulation are wonderful choices, as they can help to slow the progression of the disease. Anything that sparks happy memories or supports their daily life can be a fantastic way to show you care.

A personalised photo album with clear labels and pictures of family and past events can be a beautiful gift. Reminiscence is a key part of supporting those with dementia.  Fill a box with familiar objects related to a former job, favourite hobby, or significant life event. Include things they can touch and talk about.

Choose activities based on their current abilities. Simpler jigsaws with large pieces, dominoes, or card games are great options. The goal is fun and engagement, not challenge. Simple crafting kits, like painting by numbers or modelling clay, can encourage them to use their hands and express themselves creatively.

Relish is a helpful website with Christmas gift ideas perfectly suited to someone with dementia.

Dementia Day Club - Tapestry Day Club preparing for Christmas